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Cultivating the moment

Everyone knows how, right?

Normally our minds are "living" either in the future or the past and being judgemental.

As long as the mind does not recognise that it exists in opposites, it is steeped in ignorance, duality and illusion.

Whilst the mind exists in this state, we are living in forgetfulness and ignorance. If we consider our lives seriously, we only have this moment. The past has gone, the future is not here. Only here and now are present at any one moment.

We are used to living our lives in a robot-like way: seeing, thinking and doing. This leads to breaking contact with our deeper selves.

Carelessly, these moments become periods and these periods become whole lifetimes.

To allow ourselves to be in touch with our deeper selves we need to stop and experience long enough to allow the present moment to sink in, to feel it in our awareness and gain an understanding of it.

It is through this knowledge that we can accept the truth of this moment in our life and learn from it in order to move on. We tend to look forward to the future when things will be better or, on the other hand, we are preoccupied with the past when life was better. The truth is that neither the past nor the future is here, you only have now and will always have now.

Exercise to Cultivate the Present Moment

Now and again tell yourself: “This is it.” Is there anything that this cannot be applied to? Acceptance of the present moment means acknowledging that what is happening is happening. Remember that acceptance of the present moment has nothing to do with resigning yourself to the situation you are in.

The following qualities provide a solid foundation for the practice of Mindfulness:

  • Patience
    • Contentment
      • Letting go
        • Not judging
          • Developing trust
            • Generosity

 

 
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