10 Main Sex Myths
1) Women are less visually responsive than men.
2) Nearly 50% of women are sexually unable to have sex
3) A woman naturally knows how to turn on other
women
4) Women hit their sexual peak at 40
5) You either have foreplay or you have penetrative sex
6) Women take ages to be turned on, whereas, men are turned on quickly
7) A clitoris is a small penis
8) Never tell your partner what you want
9) It takes at least 30 minutes to turn a woman on
10) Women are only aroused by rubbing their clitorises in small circular motions
What are Women Concerned About?
We women tend to be bothered about body image and self-confidence. We worry about getting and hanging onto a partner. We worry that if we are not “good in bed” we will be rejected.
What are Men Concerned About?
Men tend to be bothered about penis size, shape, ejaculation, and how long they think they should last. Both genders are concerned about arguing and what to do if you don’t want sex, particularly if the relationship is long term.
Don’t’s
- Don’t use sex to keep a partner interested.
- Don’t think sex should be more about pleasing someone else than pleasing yourself.
- Don’t just go along for the sake of it, if you are really sure.
Do’s
- Do remember you are human – you can go off sex because you are tired, because you have relationship problems, a new baby or because you do not necessarily know what you want yet.
- Do try to talk about your needs and wants.
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